I came across a discussion in one of the Redbook forums a few days ago about nipples – and that started me thinking.

Many of my slaves / submissives are keen to show their devotion to me by worshipping my body. And I am very happy to require them to worship me. That can take many forms but one of my favorites is where I sit on a throne with my slave kneeling submissively between my legs – and have them kiss, lick and suck my body. Some of them are remarkably good at this, perhaps through long hours of practice, or perhaps through careful following of my instructions. And I very much enjoy their devoted attention.

But there are times when I find myself having to direct them to pay more attention to my nipples. Perhaps they are too absorbed in their devotion, or perhaps they are too keen to worship elsewhere, and they need a reminder. But properly directed and properly applied, having a slave’s soft, wet mouth caressing my nipples is a wonderfully arousing experience.

But the discussion that started me thinking was actually about men’s nipples – and how they are the great undiscovered erogenous zone - often even to men themselves.

I really enjoy and get turned on by inflicting pain. And nipples are a wonderful place to inflict pain – for very little effort. But I am still sometimes surprised by how sensitive some men's nipples are. With some submissives even the slightest stimulation can be too much – to the point where we have to move on to less sensitive areas. But with others I am also sometimes surprised by how much pain they can take there – and over a long protracted period. You just have to know which is which.

 Ms Emilie