Over the past week or two, I have been having a fascinating back and forth series of blogs with one of my slaves talking about chastity – see https://msemilieoxford.com/2022/02/09/guest-blog-chastity and https://msemilieoxford.com/2022/02/10/guest-blog-part-2-chastity - talking about what interests them about being in chastity, and my feelings in response. Now they have responded to my response – see below…

Ms Emilie

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I read your response post and was grateful for it.

I am intrigued by the idea that what turns you on is being able to step out of the role of being a balanced partner and not have to feel obligated to reciprocate. I think that in a way also describes my feelings to an extent about submission and chastity. Being freed from concern about whether I am being attentive enough or supportive enough, and assuming the answer is no, I am not. I need to do more to serve her needs. To follow more quickly and precisely her wants or instructions. To fulfill all of her expectations. To respond as she wants to her actions or statements. To attend more fully to her pleasure. To accept more of her exercise of power and control. To abnegate my own sense of needs, even when they are undeniable and feel urgent.

I had a Domme who once instructed me to always sign off as follows

Please use me for your pleasure...