Quite a few of my clients are interested in anal play, usually as part of a session where other things are going on. I haven’t actually tried to determine what proportion of clients are interested, but I am happy that it does feature quite often.

I notice looking at other dommes web sites, and looking at discussions on the bulletin boards, that there are two rather different conceptions of what it means to be a domme. In practice, there are probably as many different conceptions as there are dommes, but for the sake of argument let’s consider two (for want of a better word) extremes on the spectrum.

I've been meaning to write a blog about "forced bi" for a while now. But have been somewhat inhibited by how it intersects with notions of sexuality and identity. 

I usually prefer that new clients have a "provider reference". Namely, that they can provide me with contact details for a domme or transsexual (the provider) that they have seen recently (during the past year or two), and some kind of biographical information that will help that provider remember them. I can then call or email the provider concerned and get a reference - whether the potential client is reliable and safe etc.