Change Of Pace

Most of my sessions involve a submissive / slave who is interested in BDSM. And a strong powerful domme like me is their dream come true. But occasionally I see people who do not necessarily see themselves as submissives or slaves – who are not interested in BDSM per se.

World Cup Fever (More)

As I blogged recently, life has been very busy recently, managing scheduling of sessions and the rest of my life around the World Cup. 

But yesterday the scheduling challenges became a little easier when I visited with a really good Domme friend to watch the morning Round of 16 game. And she had arranged for one of her slaves to be present to serve coffee, breakfast, whatever we needed, while we watched the game.

Reflections on DomCon LA

I was a Special Guest at DomCon LA this weekend just gone - May 15-18.

I had a wonderful time! Last year I went to quite a few classes but this year I skipped them all in favor of socializing and events. And in practice, I’m not sure I would have had time for classes anyway.

Two slaves

 

The majority of my sessions are one-on-one – just me with a slave/sub. And I have a lot of fun. And I think the slaves have fun…. Perhaps… I guess it depends on your definition of fun? But there also occasions where there are three of us in session (or more) – sometimes me with a co-domme and sometimes me with two slaves. And sessioning with two slaves is very intense.

Abstinence

I have several slaves / subs in chastity – where they are wearing chastity devices where I have the key. So they do not have access to their own pleasure without my permission. I know that some dommes do this with slaves at distance – where the slaves are in a remote location, somewhere across the country, and that they use a range of strategies / technologies to do remote key holding.

Slave Training

A friend recently lent me a book titled “How to Make Your Man Behave in 21 Days or Less Using the Secrets of Professional Dog Trainers. Amazon trailers it as “One of the funniest and most astutely observed works on the sexes since James Thurber… [It] turns the often-expressed axiom ‘Men are dogs’ into a howling little handbook on men for contemporary women.” And I do tend to agree. Reading it, and showing it to women friends and pro-domme colleagues, we all laughed ruefully at how accurate it was.

Tax Special (Update)

I now finally have all my tax information in to my tax preparer and we’ve been back and forth a few times clarifying details. I still don’t know whether I’ll be in line for a refund, but at least all that is out of the way.

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